FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What is a sensual massage?
This could be considered a trick question as by definition I beleive all massage is sensual. However, in this context sensual massage combines Swedish bodywork techniques together with sensual and erotic touch, always within your comfort zone. It is deliberately arousing sexually in order to give a release, and more often than not results in one or multiple orgasms.
Is it a proper massage?
Yes, most definitely, it is a proper massage.
The Relax treatment does not include any erotic content, while the Explore and Adventure treatments have increasing levels of sensual touch and erotic content for arousal.
All massages can be tailored to your specific requirements in terms of both the dynamic of the massage and the sensual and erotic content using the request form that you will be sent after booking.
What are the benefits of sensual massage?
It's been demonstrated many times that human touch is good for both mental and physical health and provides an enormous feeling of well-being.
In addition to its uses for physical therapy and providing pleasure, massage is, above all, a "laying on of hands," a sharing of the gift of human touch.
Heart rate, respiration, and blood pressure go down if they were elevated. Oxytocin production ramps up and adrenaline and cortisol levels decline dramatically, allowing very deep relaxation. Documented benefits over the long run are diverse, ranging from improvement in immune response and to improvement on a wide range of mental activities, like learning speed and exam performance.
All of this is assuming that the touch happens in a calm, safe, non-threatening context. The more trust the recipient has for the provider, the greater the benefit.
Sensual vs. Tantric massage - are they the same thing?
There are similarities in that both provide you the opportunity to explore your sexual and sensual energies in a safe space, and my massages incorporate elements that are very similar in nature to a Tantric and Yoni massage.
However, I describe my approach as humanistic, as the experience focuses on us as sensual and sexual beings rather than spiritual. The massage is about taking us back to our deepest feelings of intimacy, sensuality and arousal, and does not include spiritual aspects, breathing exercises, meditation or ritual that are usually found with Tantric massage
Why do clients book a sensual massage?
Most women can find sex quite easily, by walking into a bar or using a dating App. However these options don't guarantee good sex, they can come with complications, and usually means considering someone else’s needs as well as your own.
A sensual massage with a professional by contrast, can be considered a selfish indulgence when taken in a safe and controlled environment. There is no need to consider anyone else’s satisfaction other than your own, it's all about what you want.
Some of the reasons clients book a sensual massage are:
I am stressed and/or tense and want an unconditional orgasmic release.
Difficulty reaching orgasm, anorgasmia / situational anorgasmia.
Curiosity and satisfying a fantasy.
Lack of sexual stimulation in my relationship.
Recently my libido has increased considerably.
Guilt/Morality/Shame around sex.
Letting go of control and trusting others with it.
Recovering of sexual aggression/abuse.
Lack of skill/knowledge by myself and partner.
I am on holiday/business so free to explore my erotic needs.
Postmenopausal and still very sexual and/or my partner is not.
Convenience and self-care for busy professionals who don’t want a relationship.
Separated/Divorced/Widowed, I would still like sexual release but not ready for relationship.
I have cultural or religious restrictions and I need a safe place to explore my sexuality.
Exploration of sexual practices as yet untried or unwanted by my partner.
Poor body image and lack of sexual self-esteem.
I want my partner to watch me have a sensual massage (cuckold massage).
I want my partner to give me a 4-hands massage with the masseur.
I want to explore my bisexuality with a male & female masseur couple.
I want to feel desired and dominated (sensual domination).
What type of clients do you see?
I see clients of all ages, body types and ethnicities. Most clients are between 25 and 55 years of age, but I do see younger and older clients.
Body type is not important as long as you are reasonably fit and healthy with no serious medical issues. I'm happy to see clients with disabilities.
Tell me more about yourself?
I'm a male masseur in my early fifties. I came to massage later in life and have found a real passion for it. I have a happy and stable family life with a long-term partner and children that are growing up fast.
My partner fully supports me in offering sensual massage treatments, and it was with her encouragement that I decided to make it a profession.
I'm 175cm tall with solid build and like to keep fit. I'm happy to share more information and pictures if required once we've had a conversation.
What training have you had?
I have trained with Colin Richards of in sensual massage for women. Colin has been helping men, women and couples in the areas of sexual fulfilment, performance and relationships since 2006. Colin pioneered his Psychosensual Treatment that combines his skills as a sensual body worker with his knowledge in emotional behaviours.
I am available to work with Colin giving a 4-hands massage at his London treatment room.
I am training in Swedish body massage, Indian head massage and Aromatherapy and have an interest in a number of other massage modalities.
Where are you located?
I work from home at a private and discrete rural location on the Leicestershire and Warwickshire border. There is secure parking away from the road and no nosy neighbours. It is easily accessible from the motorway network, with the M1, M69 & M6 all being less than 10 minutes away. I use a dedicated room to work from with adjoining bathroom for you to change and shower. I will provide the full address after an initial conversation and booking.
I'm also available for visits to your home or hotel in a 50-mile radius including Birmingham, Coventry, Derby, Leicester, Northampton and Nottingham, or beyond by special request. I also visit London regularly. For outcalls I bring with me a portable treatment table, towels and oils.
Will I see anyone else when visiting?
You will only see me when visiting, or another masseur if you have booked a 4 hand or couples massage. No one else will be on the premises and I always allow at least 30 minutes between appointments so you won't bump into other clients.
How do I book and pay?
You can book through the website which will show my availability or get in touch by email, text and/or phone. For same day bookings it's always best to email, text or call.
Following a booking you will receive a link to a Request & Authorise form to complete. This is to provide some additional details about yourself, what dynamic you want during the massage, and what types of touch and/or arousal you would like.
I ask for a £30 deposit to be paid to confirm bookings. The balance can be paid on the day of the massage.
Payment can be by cash or bank transfer. Payment by PayPal and credit card coming soon.
What if I need to cancel my appointment?
Should you need to cancel due to unforeseen circumstances don't worry. As long as you give at least 24 hours notice of needing to cancel an appointment you won't need to pay another deposit when rebooking.
What happens during an appointment?
Appointments are 30 minutes longer than the treatment time to ensure a relaxed and unhurried experience. I also reserve a minimum 30 minutes between appointments to give time to prepare the room and ensure you won't see other clients arriving or leaving.
You will have completed a Request & Authorise form before arriving where you will have prioritised the dynamic of the massage and type of touch and arousal you would like.
On arrival you will be offered refreshments, while we have a conversation about your treatment, what your motivation is and what you want to get out of it. This is a chance for you to ask any questions you may still have and allow you to relax and feel comfortable before the treatment begins.
When you are ready, I will show you to the massage room. I will leave you to change and have a shower to freshen up if you wish and get comfortable on the treatment table.
During the Explore and Adventure massage I will pause to leave the room once or twice to allow you to turn over and for arousal to subside before continuing.
When complete I'll leave the room. When you are ready you may have another shower if you wish and dress. If you have time, I would like to have another conversation to see how you feel and if the massage delivered all that you had hoped.
Can I bring a friend or partner?
Yes, you are very welcome to come along with your partner or a friend. They are free to wait in an adjacent room, sit and watch the massage treatment being given and/or join in to give a 4-hands massage. There is no additional charge.
Will the masseur be naked?
It's your choice whether the masseur is naked or clothed. Some people are more comfortable if the masseur remains clothed, while others feel it enhances the experience if the masseur is also naked. You can specify your preference when competing the request form after booking.
Can I touch the masseur?
For some people reciprocal touch is important to their experience. If you want to touch me in anyway you can, and nothing you do is wrong. However there is no expectation or obligation to do so.
Do you massage men as well as women?
No I don’t. I specialise in sensual massage for women. However, I can recommend a couple of places locally that do, get in touch for more details.
What type of massage oil do you use?
I use unscented grape seed or almond oil. If you have any preferences or allergies let me know, I'd be happy to obtain different oil if you need to prefer.
What should I do before a massage?
Here are some things to do ahead of your massage:
- Bath or Shower.
Have a warm bath or shower before arriving for a massage, you're welcome to freshen up when you arrive. As well as being confident that you are nice and clean, a warn bath or shower will help start the relaxation process. However, avoid getting your hair wet or dry after as wet hair can make you feel cold during the massage.
- Remove Jewellery
Ideally remove all jewellery, both to avoid any damage but also to allow free movement during the massage.
What should I do after a massage?
You've had your massage and you should be feeling nice and relaxed. Here are some tips to help the benefits last as long as possible.
- Drink Water!
If you do nothing else do this. Massage releases toxins in your body and water is needed to help flush them out so skip the alcohol and caffeine and drink plenty of water.
- Fuel the body.
Have a snack to hand after a massage. Massage can speed up your circulatory and digestives systems, having something to eat can avoid you feeling light-headed.
- Take it Easy.
You feel more relaxed, calm and content. Try to book your massage for a time when you know you can go home afterwards. Put your feet up, read a book, have a soak in the bath or take a nap. Whatever works for you to help prolong that calm feeling of wellbeing.
- Welcome Emotions.
With the relaxation and release that a sensual massage can provide, it can be normal to want to let go of some emotional baggage too. You may feel elated or energised, but if you've been stressed or holding on to negative feelings for a while, as the barriers come down you may become emotional and feel the need to cry. This is perfectly normal, don't fight it, allow it to happen. It can leave you feeling much better afterwards.
- Book your next massage.
Well if it was good why wouldn't you want to do it again and give yourself something to look forward to...
Do you offer any discounts?
I'm currently offering the following discounts:
REFERRAL 20 - Recommend me to someone you know and ask them to mention your name when booking and receive a £20 discount on your next treatment taken within 6 months AND the person you refer will also receive a £10 discount on their first booking.
STUDENT 20 - If you are a full time student then receive a £20 discount.
REPEAT 10 - Book and confirm a second or subsequent treatment within 3 months of a previous visit and receive a £10 discount.
BLUELIGHT 10 - If you work for the NHS, Police, Fire Service or Armed Forces then receive a £10 discount, don't forget to mention when booking.
REVIEW 10 - Post a review on Google or elsewhere within 1 month of your treatment and receive £10 discount on you next visit. Google reviews can be seen on here g.page/sensualbodyworks/review.
Discounts can be used in conjunction which each other and apply to all Relax, Explore & Adventure treatments.