SENSUAL COUPLES MASSAGE

Options for couples wanting to enjoy sensual massage together.

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Many couples reach a point in their relationship where they fantasise about involving others in their intimate life. A so called monogamish lifestyle can provide a real shot of adrenaline to many relationships and is usually a sign of a couple that have great communication, trust and love for each other.

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Couples that explore intimately with others say that it both brings them closer together, and improves their sex life with one another. However, I would only recommend for those with a good and solid existing relationship. Most importantly being able to communicate openly and honestly is vital. If this is not the case and most especially if there are underlying issues in the relationship, I recommend avoiding as it is more likely to damage the relationship. Work on the issues in other ways and perhaps come back to this at a later date.

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In the first instance fantasies may be fulfilled by simply talking to each other about involving others and not acting on it at all. This can be very exciting, and as we know the mind is the most powerful sex organ. Some couples may go a step further and flirt with others but not take it any further, while for some couples there is no substitute to for the real thing. What ever you do, taking it slowly is a good idea, you can't undo it once it has been done. Talk to each other before and after anything you try to ensure both of you are happy.

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For couples just starting out on an erotic journey together, setting out to involve others can seem quite daunting and they can be unsure how and where to start. There are many sites for liberated people to meet each other but it can be difficult to find the genuine people on there. There is a thriving club scene in the UK but again this can be a bit full on especially for a couples first experience. 

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A sensual couples massage by contrast can be a wonderful first step on this journey. It provides a safe and controlled environment that is all about you as a couple, with no one else’s agenda or needs to consider. You’re able to specify what you want and set any boundaries in advance and remain in control at all times.

Sensual massage can also be a break from the norm and something different for more experienced couples. It's far more than just an erotic adventure, but an extremely relaxing and inimate experience.

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