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FrolicMe Review - Is It Pornography Designed With Women in Mind?

  • Writer: Jools
    Jools
  • Jun 22, 2019
  • 3 min read

Updated: Aug 2

I first came across FrolicMe after watching Anna Richards in the Channel 4 documentary Mums Make Porn, which I discussed in an earlier article. The documentary explored whether pornography could be produced differently, and Anna's approach immediately caught my attention because she spoke about creating erotic content from a female perspective rather than simply reproducing the formula found on many mainstream pornography sites.


That interested me, not simply because of the films themselves, but because it reflects a much broader conversation.


I believe sexuality, intimacy and touch are healthy, natural parts of being human. Like dance, massage, relationships and affection, they can be explored thoughtfully, safely, respectfully and with intention. For me, the question isn't whether erotic media should exist, but what kind of messages it conveys and whether it encourages a healthy relationship with our sexuality.


Anna Richards founder of Frolicme.
Anna Richards founder of Frolicme.

First Impressions

FrolicMe is certainly different from many of the free pornography websites available online.


The production quality is high, the films are beautifully shot, and there is a genuine attempt to build anticipation, chemistry and emotional connection rather than focusing purely on explicit acts. Alongside the films are galleries, erotic stories and a magazine containing articles exploring relationships, sexuality and intimacy.


It feels more considered, more sensual and less transactional than much of the mainstream content available online.


What I Like

What I appreciate most is that FrolicMe attempts to present sexuality as something more than physical release.


The emphasis is often on desire, anticipation, connection and mutual enjoyment. Whether viewed individually or as a couple, there is an effort to create an experience rather than simply a sequence of explicit scenes.


For anyone looking for erotic material that feels more sophisticated and less aggressive than mainstream pornography, FrolicMe is a refreshing alternative.


Where I Think It Falls Short

If I have one criticism, it's that almost everyone featured is conventionally attractive.


While the cinematography is beautiful, it can also feel a little too polished. Real intimacy isn't reserved for young people with perfect bodies. One of the privileges of my own work is seeing people of all ages, shapes and backgrounds rediscover confidence in their bodies and reconnect with their sensuality.


In many ways I think truly progressive erotic media would celebrate that diversity rather than presenting beauty as something only certain people possess.


I also feel there is room for broader representation of different relationship styles, sexual orientations and life experiences.



Subscription

FrolicMe offers a range of subscription options, from short-term access through to annual memberships. Whether it represents good value will depend on how often you intend to use it, but for those seeking high-quality erotic content produced with care and attention, it compares favourably with many alternatives.


Final Thoughts

No website will appeal to everyone, and FrolicMe isn't perfect.


However, I do think it represents a more thoughtful approach to erotic media than much of what is freely available online. It recognises that sexuality isn't simply about explicit acts, but can also involve anticipation, communication, confidence, vulnerability and connection.


For anyone curious about exploring erotic media that places greater emphasis on sensuality and female desire, I think it's well worth a look.


As with anything involving sexuality, I'd encourage people to approach it mindfully. Good erotic media should enhance our understanding of intimacy, not replace real human connection.


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