What do you make of your own fantasies? Do you enjoy them, question them, dismiss them, or wonder what someone else would think if they knew? Gillian Anderson’s latest book, More, brings that private world into public conversation. Following her 2024 collection Want, it gathers anonymous letters from women about their sexual fantasies. Published this September, the new collection includes contributions from women aged 18 to 80, across more than 50 countries. The idea alone raises an...

A new space for connection, clarity, and consent-led pleasure

I hear a version of this surprisingly often from women who visit me: "I've given up on dating." Sometimes it’s said with a laugh. Sometimes with genuine frustration. Too many dating apps. Too many time-wasters. Too many men saying they want a relationship when what they really want is sex. Too many conversations that seem promising and then disappear without explanation. And while most of the conversations I have through my work are with women, plenty of men have become equally disillusioned...