Exploring the World of Sensual Massage: Unveiling Myths and Benefits...
Not everyone is familiar with the term Sensual Massage and there are some misconceptions circulating about it. Here, I address some common questions regarding Sensual Bodyworks.
A Sensual Massage, also known as Full Body Sensual Massage, is an intimate experience that combines therapeutic bodywork techniques with sensual elements and erotic touch to intentionally arouse the body.
While all massage can be considered sensual, in this context, a sensual massage is best when based on a relaxing modality such as Swedish or Lomi Lomi massage. Treatments should ideally incorporate full body massage which may be firm at times, and can even include some deep tissue work. A sensual massage will ideally begin by relaxing the body and allowing the mind to clear. There is no limit to the sensual elements that can be used to tantalise and excite the skin, from fingertip touch and feathers to hot oils and candle wax, even hot stones and ice.
In a sensual massage session, the atmosphere plays a crucial role in enhancing the overall experience. Soft, ambient lighting, soothing music, and aromatic scents like lavender or sandalwood can create a serene environment conducive to relaxation and heightened senses. The use of luxurious fabrics such as silk or satin for draping can add an extra touch of sensuality to the experience.
The art of a sensual massage lies in the practitioner's ability to connect with the recipient on a deeper level, tuning in to their body's responses and adjusting the pressure and techniques accordingly. Communication is key during a sensual massage to ensure that both parties are comfortable and enjoying the experience. Encouraging deep breathing and mindfulness can further enhance the relaxation and sensual aspects of the massage.
As the massage progresses, the practitioner may focus on different erogenous zones of the body, using varying strokes and pressures to build up arousal and pleasure. The incorporation of techniques like feather-light touches, gentle caresses, and teasing movements can heighten the sensory experience and create a sense of anticipation and excitement.
Overall, a sensual massage is a holistic experience that aims to stimulate not only the body but also the mind and spirit. By combining relaxation, sensuality, and skilled touch, a sensual massage can provide a deeply rejuvenating and pleasurable experience that nurtures both the physical and emotional well-being of the recipient.
Introducing erotic elements gradually can enhance arousal over time. While a massage may lead to orgasms, it doesn't need to be the primary objective. It's about the experience as a whole, not just the end result. Certain treatments, particularly for women, may involve repeating the process multiple times.
A soothing massage is delightful, sensual touch is exquisite, and arousal is enjoyable. A sensual massage that incorporates these aspects can surpass individual components, offering a distinctive blend of sensations, excitement, and emotions.
What are the benefits of Mensual Massage?
Human touch has been proven to have positive effects on both our mental and physical health, offering a significant sense of well-being. Sensual massage is now being acknowledged as a highly enjoyable and beneficial therapy. It is a form of self-care that can greatly reduce stress, anxiety, and discomfort, while also improving overall wellness and aiding in achieving restful sleep. Additionally, these treatments can be beneficial for addressing psychosexual issues such as situational anorgasmia, intimacy fears, and boosting body and sexual confidence.
Heart rate, respiration and blood pressure go down if they were elevated. Oxytocin production ramps up and adrenaline and cortisol levels decline dramatically allowing very deep relaxation. Documented benefits over the long run are diverse ranging from improvement in the immune response to improvement of a wide range of mental activities including learning speed and exam performance. All of this is assuming that the touch happens in a calm, safe, non-threatening environment. The more trust the recipient has for the provider the more they can let go and the greater the benefit.
Sensual massage vs. Tantric massage?
Although Sensual massage and Tantric massage share similarities, they differ in their focus and approach. While a skilled practitioner will create a safe space for exploring sexual and sensual energies in both types of massage, Sensual massage concentrates on our sensual and sexual nature without the spiritual elements present in Tantric massage. Sensual massage aims to reconnect us with our intimate and arousing feelings, treating arousal as a natural human response, and typically does not involve spiritual practices, breathing exercises, meditation, or rituals commonly found in Tantric massage.
Why do women book a Sensual Massage?
Treatments offer relaxation and a sense of well-being while also offering a means of release. A competent practitioner will be proficient in their technique and attuned to your responses to their touch. The focus of treatments should solely be on you, without the need to take into account anyone else's needs but your own.
Some of the reason’s clients book a sensual massage are:
I am stressed and/or tense and want an unconditional orgasmic release.
Difficulty reaching orgasm, anorgasmia / situational anorgasmia.
Curiosity and satisfying a fantasy.
Lack of sexual stimulation in my relationship.
Recently my libido has increased considerably.
Guilt/Morality/Shame around sex.
Letting go of control and trusting others with it.
Recovering from sexual aggression/abuse.
Lack of skill/knowledge by myself and my partner.
Convenience and self-care for busy professionals who don’t want a relationship.
Separated/Divorced/Widowed, I would still like a sexual release but I'm not ready for a relationship.
I have cultural or religious restrictions and I need a safe place to explore my sexuality.
Exploration of sexual practices as yet untried or unwanted by my partner.
Poor body image and lack of sexual self-esteem.
I want my partner to watch me have a sensual massage (cuckold massage).
I want my partner to give me a 4-hands massage with the masseur.
I want to explore my bisexuality with a male & female masseur couple.
I want to feel desired and dominated (sensual domination).
How to find a good Sensual Massage practitioner?
There are some platforms featuring sensual massage practitioners such as Pleasure Revolution, which can be a good place to start, but it is advisable to look out for the following:
Detailed Website
When searching for practitioners, it is highly recommended to seek out those who have their own dedicated website that provides a clear and detailed description of the services they offer. Having a website not only showcases professionalism but also indicates a level of commitment to their practice. A well-designed website can provide valuable insights into the practitioner's background, qualifications, areas of expertise, and approach to their work.
Establishing Consent
Do they talk about and have a process for establishing consent? This is a crucial question that delves into the heart of ethical and respectful interactions. When we consider the concept of consent, it goes beyond a simple yes or no. It involves a complex interplay of communication, understanding, and mutual agreement.
Trauma Aware
Being trauma aware means having a deep understanding of the impact that traumatic experiences can have on individuals' mental, emotional, and physical well-being. It involves recognising the signs and symptoms of trauma, being sensitive to the needs of those who have experienced trauma, and creating a safe and supportive environment, and on occasion knowing when not to work with someone.
Independent Reviews
As with any product or service, it is important to evaluate whether the company actively encourages and features reviews on independent sites. This practice can provide valuable insights into the quality and reliability of what they are offering. By seeking feedback from various sources, including independent review platforms, you can gain a more comprehensive understanding of the overall reputation of the practitioner.
Introductory Call
It is advisable to communicate with the practitioner before making a booking. A reputable practitioner should provide this service free of charge and without any obligation, to help you determine if their services are suitable for you and if you are comfortable with them.
About the author.
Jools created Sensual Bodyworks in 2019 based in a rural location on the Leicestershire/Warwickshire border and is also available to visit you around the UK. Sensual Bodyworks is dedicated to offering women and couples a safe and discreet space to relax and enjoy the pleasure of full body sensual massage, without judgement, expectation or obligation. If you would like to find out more or try a massage yourself please get in touch.